there , flashing up on the screen , was an instagram photograph posted by his eldest son , the actor oliver hudson – his first - born child with ex - wife goldie hawn and brother of bill ’s older daughter kate . it had been the perfect father ’s day . scroll down for video ex : in a searingly raw interview with the mail on sunday last night , bill hudson ( pictured ) veering between tears of sadness and flashes of anger , vowed to ‘ break all ties ’ with his eldest children , actors kate and oliver children : goldie hawn pictured with her daughter , kate hudson , ( left ) and son oliver hudson , ( right ) taken more than 30 years ago , it showed a smiling oliver and kate as happy children , posing with their father . so when bill hudson settled down with his laptop after dinner , he was looking forward to nothing more than a peaceful evening at home . almost famous actress kate twisted the knife further by posting an intimate black and white photograph that cut bill ’s heart to the quick . but he did n't do himself any favors . larson 's parents divorced when she was ten years old , and by the time she was 26 , she had n't seen or spoken to her dad in more than ten years . addressing his message to his sister , oliver wrote : ‘ happy abandonment day .... @katehudson .