today i ’ m going to do without you baby . diddy also adopted porter ’s son quincy from her relationship with music producer al b. a rep confirmed to page six on thursday that porter had passed away . ( opens in new window ) + ( opens in new window ) ( opens in new window ) ( opens in new window ) sean “ diddy ” combs broke his silence sunday , addressing the death of ex kim porter . for the last three days i ' ve been trying to wake up out of this nightmare . diddy and porter dated on and off for 13 years and share three children together , son christian , 20 , and 11 - year - old model and actress was found dead thursday at her home in toluca lake , california . taking to social media , the rapper posted a touching tribute to the mother of three of his children , who died thursday at the age of 46 . ( cnn ) sean " diddy " combs has found the words to publicly grieve kim porter three days after her death . “ for the last three days i ’ ve been trying to wake up out of this nightmare .